-"Blast off and re-entry:" Make it a point to see husband off to work in the morning, and greet him in the evening.
-Don't be determined to win; prioritize the relationship over the issue.
-Respect him more or better. Don't consider if he is "loving" you well enough. Don't withhold respect.
-Don't have discussions in front of the children.
-Forgive freely. If you live in your history, God can't take you to your destiny.
-Spend more time with God, so you're not as dependent on your husband to meet your needs.
-Your husband does not determine your self worth, Jesus does that.
-Let him be a guy (and don't criticize how he compartmentalizes his life).
-Ask for what you need.
-Be "for" your husband.
-Appreciate him more (it's never lost on him).
-Be the one to get back on track.
-Respect him in the bedroom.
Connie's suggested reading list:
Two Sides of Love by Gary Smalley and John Trent
Motivating your Man God's Way by Dr. Emerson & Sarah Eggerichs
Women are like Spaghetti, Men are like Waffles by Bill Farrel
Idol Lies by Dee Brestin
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Torn Asunder by David M. Carder and R. Duncan Jaenicke
Wounded Heart by Dan B. Allender
Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs
Politically Incorrect Wife by Nancy Cobb and Connie Grigsby
Becoming the Woman of his Dreams by Sharon Jaynes
