Wednesday, April 17, 2013


Let’s Get to Know our 2/4 moms!
Thanks, Brenda, for sharing your table with us!

Pictured: Back Row- Ann Bauer, Catherine Boucher, Rachel Papik, Brenda Boggs, Erika Barber
Front Row- Marie Morris, Debi Thompkins, Amy Gleason
 
 
 On the Road Again
by Brenda Boggs
 
It's that time of year again. Time to plunge into summer vacation planning. Swim lessons, camps and vacation Bible school are a few of the activities we start signing up for this month. Once those are on the calendar we can focus on my favorite thing to plan…traveling. Our family loves to travel to new places and our favorite way to get there is to drive. That way we get to stop and explore country we haven’t seen before.  My favorite road trip thus far was when we drove to the Grand Canyon with some friends two years ago. Our children were 2, 3 and 7 and our friends’ kids were 1, 3, 7, and 9. Driving with another family was great because we usually switched kids up which eliminated sibling squabbles. 
 
Getting to the Grand Canyon was an adventure with many fun stops on the way. The first night we stayed with friends in Wyoming and the next day we saw elk, deer and moose on a scenic drive through Rocky Mountain National Park on our way to stay with relatives in Hooper, CO. We spent an extra day in Hooper to explore the Great Sand Dunes National Park. Upon arriving at the base of the dunes my son exclaimed, “It’s God’s sandbox!” The children under five were happy to dig and play in some of God’s 150,000 acres of sand while the adults and older children took turns hiking to the top of the dunes for gorgeous views of the San Luis Valley and some downhill sledding sans snow!
 
The next day we stopped at Mesa Verde National Park in Cortez, CO where we hiked to ancient sites of homes and villages built by the ancient Pueblo people. It was amazing to see the spectacular cliff dwellings, and a bit humbling to see what people were capable of building without our modern tools and inventions. Of course we also had to stop at Four Corners for pictures and souvenirs before we finally made it to Arizona. It was really cool to see all of the huge, beautiful rock formations on our drive and at Red Rock State Park in Sedona.  
 
Finally, we visited the Grand Canyon. To make it even more exciting we decided to get there before dawn. No problem except we were staying in Flagstaff, which is about an hour and a half away, in a different time zone, and the sun rises around 5:30 am, so we had to get the kids in the car and be out the door by 3:30am! I didn’t think we’d make it and we almost didn’t. But just as we sat down on the rocky viewing area, snuggled in our blankets and eating my friend’s yummy breakfast burritos we saw the most glorious sunrise. The way the sun lights up the vast canyon as it peeks over the edge is simply breathtaking. Totally worth the trip!  And did I mention there were no lines and no one in the ticket booth as we drove up? Just a note on the window telling us to enjoy the park.  Later, when we drove out of the park, we saw a double wide, two mile long row of cars waiting to get in. Glad we missed that!

 
4 adults. 7 kids. 2 vans. 6 states. 10 days. 3100 miles. So many memories!
 
So now we plunge into our next adventure as we plan a trip to the Black Hills in South Dakota. Wonder what the sun looks like rising over Mt. Rushmore. Perhaps we will find out.


Favorite thing about being a mom...
  • My favorite thing about being a mom is watching my children grow and develop their own personalities. I also enjoy teaching them, and in turn learning from them. Peanut butter-and-jelly kisses and hugs are rather wonderful too. (Marie Morris)
  • Getting the chance to snuggle with each child in bed or on the couch while we talk or read a book together. (Brenda Boggs)
  • My days are so long and exhausting with 4 young kids. Each night I check in on them when they are fast asleep. I love seeing them so peaceful, calm and angelic. I quietly ask God to bless each child, and each night I get the chills and feel so blessed in my heart. (Ann Bauer)
  • I know God gave us (and continues to give us!) exactly the children that we need.  I call them my little "saint makers" because each child uniquely prunes something in me that needs changing.  They force me to be a better person on a daily basis. (Catherine Boucher)
  • Oh this is a tough one...I think I get the most joy at this stage from their imaginations & creativity & innocence. (Amy Gleason)
  • The deep, deep love I feel for my kids. (Rachel Papik)
  • My favorite thing about being a mom is when you have those really sweet moments when you over hear your kids telling their friends something about what we do at home that you wonder if it really even matters but when you hear them telling a friend…."My mom always______"  You know you are making a difference in their lives.  It always puts a smile on my face and encourages me to take time to do the little things!  The notes in lunch boxes or on the bathroom mirror, or standing at the door watching them back out of the driveway, or a text for no other reason except to encourage them.  It all matters. :-) (Debi Thompkins)
  • Laughter. My husband is the youngest of four and has a great sense of humor. Our two boys are catching on to his facial expressions. They love to make people laugh, which their teachers aren't necessarily too thrilled about when they don't pick the right times to be the class clown.(Erika Barber)

Favorite cleaning product or trick...
  • Kids and Pets is my favorite product! Best stain cleaner for pee accidents for children and animals. It also removes other stains. It managed to pulled permanent marker off my couch. It's pleasant smelling too. (Marie Morris)
  • To clean the microwave: put a cup of water with a little baking soda in it and heat it to a boil.  Take it out and wipe down with a wet cloth.  Stuck on food comes off like magic and baking soda deodorizes too.  (Brenda Boggs)
  • Tricking my children into cleaning up their junk by turning the music up really loud and having a Dance Party! (Amy Gleason)
  • To clean the microwave, I put something like a 1/2 cup water and a 1/2 cup vinegar in a microwave safe bowl and microwave it for 10 minutes. All the food just wipes right off. The weird part is that all the food bits are dry, so there's no scrubbing. (Rachel Papik)
  • Cleaning the microwave: Don't forget about the power of steam! Fill a microwave safe bowl with water and half of a lemon. Run on high for five minutes. Open the door and wipe down the sides. Ta-da! (Catherine Boucher)
  • Using 1/2 packet of lemon kool-aid does wonders for my dishwasher and dishes. Everything comes out sparkling and free of hard water spots. (Ann Bauer)
  • Taking time to De-clutter (Erika Barber)
Your dream vacation...
  • My dream vacation would be to take the kids to visit my parents back home. I'm originally from the east coast, and my parents do not get to see the grandkids other than through photos. So spending time with them for more than 3 days would be a real dream come true. (Marie Morris)
  • A trip to Ireland (Brenda Boggs)
  • I visited Ireland in college and would love to go back with the family.  (Ann Bauer)
  • Anyplace with warm weather, lots of great restaurants, virgin frozen drinks poolside (no alcohol for the prego mama!), time to catch up on reading, hubby at my side, and a break from all things kids and house! (Catherine Boucher)
  • Visiting wine country in Spain, France, Italy, and Germany. (Amy Gleason)
  • A train ride up the west coast. Starting in Napa Valley and ending in Seattle. (Rachel Papik)
  • Cycling across Europe (Erika Barber)
A recipe or idea for summer fun with your kids...
  • Homemade Popsicle or ice cream bars, and trips to the park. Those are our favorites. (Marie Morris)
  • I've sectioned off a portion of the yard for digging. I'm pretty sure that's what we will be doing this summer. (Rachel Papik)
  • Make smoothies in the morning for breakfast. Keep leftover smoothies to make Popsicles. (Erika Barber)
  • Great recipe for the grill. Kids and adults love them! (Brenda Boggs) http://www.parenting.com/article/perfect-potatoes
Perfect Potatoes
*3 large baking potatoes
* 1/4 cup olive oil
* 1 tsp salt
* 1 tsp paprika
* 2 tsp garlic powder (not garlic salt)
1. Preheat grill to medium high.
2. Clean and halve each potato. Cut each half into 1-inch slices. In a large bowl, combine the remaining ingredients. Add potatoes and toss gently to coat.
3. Arrange the potato slices on a 20-inch square of double-thick aluminum foil (or use a foil bag, such as Reynolds Hot Bags Foil Bags). Fold the foil around the potatoes and seal tightly. Grill over medium heat for about 30 minutes, turning every 10 minutes. Open packet to test; when fork-tender, remove from grill and serve immediately.

How kids can help: Measure ingredients; toss potato slices in the oil blend.
  • We love this easy and simple rainy day activity.  (Ann Bauer)
 
 
Grilled Ham & Pineapple Burgers
*2 Cups loosely packed fresh basil leaves
*1 pound ground ham loaf (or 1/2 lb. each ground ham and ground pork)
*4 1/2 inch thick slices fresh pineapple
*4 kaiser rolls, split and toasted
*1/4cup mayonnaise
*2 tablespoons yellow mustard
*1 tablespoon honey

Directions
1. Snip enough basil to equal 1/3 cup. In large bowl combine half the snipped basil and ground ham. Shape in four 3/4-inch-thick patties.
2. Grill patties on rack of charcoal or gas grill, covered, directly over medium heat for 14 to 18 minutes, turning once, until patties register 160 degrees F with instant-read thermometer. Add pineapple to grill during last 6 minutes of grilling time for patties, turning once.
3. Meanwhile, in bowl combine mayonnaise, mustard, honey, and remaining snipped basil. Spread on cut side of roll bottoms. Layer patties, remaining basil leaves, pineapple, and roll tops.
  • One of my new favorite recipe is a Black Bean Salsa.  Salsa is a very popular item in my house….black beans are not.  So this recipe combines the two and makes beans just a bit more tolerable :-) 
Corn/Black Bean Salsa

*1 can black beans  (drained very well
*1 can black eye peas (drained very well)
*1 med red onion
*2 peppers - red or green
*3 jalapeƱos
*1 small bag frozen corn
*4 tomatoes
*6 cloves of garlic
*Cilantro

Dressing:
*1/2 cup olive oil
*1/2 cup white vinegar
*1 pkg regular italian dressing (dry powder)
*2-3 tsp italian seasoning
*juice of 1 lime
 
Let’s Eat…

Fruit salad with Pistachio pudding.
1 box Instant Pistachio Pudding
2 small apples chopped
1 can of pineapple (crushed or chunk, both are good)
1 cup fresh pitted cherries
2 large bananas
2 cups seedless green grapes
1 8oz tub of whipped cream
1 cup Milk (or buttermilk, my grandmother preferred it)
optional 1/2cup of chopped walnuts (or nut of your choice)

Make the pudding according to the directions, using the cup of milk or butter milk when you make the pudding. Let it set, then add all the remaining ingredients. I usually chill overnight before serving.

(I know some people add marshmallows to this sort of recipe, but I never have. I think there's enough sugar in the pudding and whipped cream. But you can add it if you'd like.)

 
Zezty Quinoa Salad
http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Zesty-Quinoa-Salad/Detail.aspx

1 cup quinoa
2 cups water
1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil
2 limes, juiced
2 teaspoons ground cumin
1 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon red pepper flakes, or more to taste
1 1/2 cups halved cherry tomatoes
1 (15 ounce) can black beans, drained and rinsed
5 green onions, finely chopped
1/4 cup chopped fresh cilantro
salt and ground black pepper to taste

Directions:

1. Bring quinoa and water to a boil in a saucepan. Reduce heat to medium-low, cover, and simmer until quinoa is tender and water has been absorbed, 10 to 15 minutes. Set aside to cool.

2. Whisk olive oil, lime juice, cumin, 1 teaspoon salt, and red pepper flakes together in a bowl.

3. Combine quinoa, tomatoes, black beans, and green onions together in a bowl. Pour dressing over quinoa mixture; toss to coat. Stir in cilantro; season with salt and black pepper. Serve immediately or chill in refrigerator.

 
Southwestern Chicken & Cornbread Salad
http://www.marthastewart.com/856896/southwestern-chicken-cornbread-salad

6 cornbread muffins, very dry, coarsely crumbled, divided
1 (2.25 ounce) can sliced ripe olives drained
1 (16 ounce) can pinto beans, rinsed and drained
1 (11 ounce) can whole kernel sweet corn, drained
1 cup Hidden Valley® Spicy Ranch Dressing, divided
1 cup bell pepper, diced, assorted colors
2 chicken breasts, grilled
1/2 cup red onion, diced
1 cup tomatoes, seeded and diced
1/2 cup Cheddar cheese, shredded

Directions:

1.      In large clear salad bowl or trifle dish, layer half of the cornbread followed by olives, pinto beans and corn. Top with 1/2 cup of the dressing. Layer with bell pepper, chicken, onion, tomatoes, remaining cornbread and remaining dressing. Sprinkle with cheese.

2.      Cover and refrigerate several hours or overnight.

 
Little King’s Salad

3 Rotella’s hard rolls, broken up
2 tomatoes chopped
1 onion, diced
6 oz. Swiss cheese shredded
1 head lettuce, chopped or shredded (hearts of Romaine bag)
1/2 lb. ham, chopped
1/2 lb. turkey, chopped
3/4 c. vegetable oil
1/4 c. tarragon vinegar
1/8 tsp. pepper
1/2 tsp. oregano
1 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. garlic powder

Combine rolls, tomatoes, onion, cheese, lettuce, ham, and turkey into a large bowl.  Mix oil, vinegar, and spices to make dressing.  Works best if rolls added just before serving so they don’t get soggy. 


Sunday, March 17, 2013


Let’s Get to Know our 1/3 Ladies…
Thanks Katie, for sharing your table with us!
Back Row:  Jessica Reade, Michelle Kazor, Katie Wheat, Kimberly Storm, Jessica Beck, Stacy Meyer
Front Row :  Susan Friesen, Bethany Doyle,Stacy Heavican
 
Easter Memories

By Katie Wheat



I have many fond memories of Easter as a child, and many nightmares of the matching Easter dresses... with my mom( FYI, never a good look...). I loved getting up Easter morning and going down into our Victorian styled living room. Jelly beans were "hidden" in every nook and cranny of the elaborate furniture and decor. My dad would always tell us about Jesus and all he had done for us and then we would get to search for our Easter baskets. As soon as every Easter basket was found, the mad dash for the jelly bean collecting began!

One of the greatest things about being a mom for me is now getting to experience the joy of the Holidays through my kids. I have always enjoyed Holidays but there is something about seeing the excitement of my 3 year old, or hearing the squeal of my 1 year old as they experience these traditions for the first time!


I may not have a little girl that I can torture with matching dresses, but I am so thankful for the two precious little guys who I know will love their very first Easter basket/ jelly bean hunt, and I can't wait to experience it with them!

 

 
What's a funny one liner you never thought you'd say to your kids...

·         Because God made me the mom. You can complain to Him about it." (Jessica Reade)

·         Did you just eat that" My kiddos are great at finding crumbs, snacks on the floor, in the car...just about anywhere. (Stacy Heavican)

·         "Don't lick your brother" (It's the only one that is fresh in my mind...I used that one just this morning!) (Stacy Meyer)

·         "Hurry up in there! This isn't a fashion show!" (Michelle Kazor)

 

 

What's your favorite go to dinner when you are short on time or cash?

·        Chicken Tortilla Soup- It's basically chicken and four cans of veggies. (Jessica Reade) ~ Recipe below

·        Spaghetti and garlic bread (Stacy Heavican)

·        Brinner! My family loves breakfast for dinner. There aren't many meals quicker or cheaper than whipping up a pan of scrambled eggs and pancakes! (Stacy Meyer)

·        Cheesy Chicken Bake (Bethany Doyle) ~ Recipe Below

·        Hamburger or Tuna Helper (Michelle Kazor)

·        Taco Soup (Beth Sanchez)


 

Favorite book you read last year...

·        Oooh, that's hard!!! "Grace Based Parenting" - non-fiction "The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society" – fiction (Jessica Reade)

·        The Lucky One by Nicholas Sparks (Stacy Heavican)

·        I'm not much of a book reader.  I love my subscription to US Weekly though.  I need short stories/paragraphs that I can read in one sitting.  It's my guilty pleasure to read about celebrities and see how the other side lives. :) (Stacy Meyer)

·        The Light Between Oceans by M. L. Stedman (Bethany Doyle)

·        I don't always have time to read but, I love listening to books on CD. Bringing up Boys by Dr. Dobson has helped me understand my little boy better.  I also enjoyed reading Hinds feet on High places. (Beth Sanchez)




Do you have any cute ideas for Easter crafts or recipes?

·        This year we're going to put glue dots on eggs and roll them in glitter for some sparkly, girly. Polka dot eggs. Gotta love Pinterest! (Jessica Reade)

·        Mine isn't specifically either a craft or recipe, but my kids love it when I fill those bright, plastic eggs with their snacks or meals.  I sometimes put their after school snacks in them.  Or, I put a few in their school lunches.  I fill them with crackers, blueberries, fruit snacks, pretzels...whatever fits!  It's always more fun to eat out of a cute container! (Stacy Meyer)

·        Make your own s'mores but use "peeps" for the marshmallows (Michelle Kazor)

·       One of the things we do every year to prepare for Easter is the Resurection Eggs. I know Jessica already mentioned this but we are going to experiment with the glitter Easter Eggs as well. (Beth Sanchez)

 

Let’s Eat…

Chicken Tortilla Soup (from Jessica Reade via Jana Murphy)

1 lb. chicken breasts, cooked and shredded
1 can Rotel
1 can black beans
1 can pinto beans
1 cup salsa

Bring all ingredients to a boil and then let simmer for ten or so minutes. Serve with sour cream, shredded cheese and tortilla chips if desired.

You can also throw ingredients into a crockpot on low for a few hours.



Cheesy Chicken Bake (from Bethany Doyle)

2-4 Chicken breasts, butterflied (or 10 chicken tenders)
1-1.5 cups shredded Mozzarella cheese
2 (10 3/4oz) cans cream of chicken soup
1/4 cup milk or white wine
12 oz of stove top stuffing
3 T butter, melted

Place chicken breasts in 9x13 pan. Sprinkle cheese on top of chicken. Mix soups and milk/wine, pour over chicken. Sprinkle with Stove Top stuffing. Drizzle over with melted butter. Bake at 350 degrees for 40 minutes. Cover if getting to dark.

Optionally~ can be done in the crockpot on low for about 6hrs. Prepare the same way but pour 1/3 cup chicken broth over top.

 

 

Wednesday, February 6, 2013


Let’s Get to know our 2/4 Moms...
Back Row: Elizabeth, Kristin, Lynette
Front Row: Kathleen, Jennifer, Georgette, Kate
(Kelsy and Bridget-not pictured)
 



Taking a Plunge…


Moving
By Jennifer Riser

One of the biggest plunges of my life began in the fall of 2009 when we found out that my husband’s career dream was coming true.  We knew that the “job” would take us out of Atlanta, GA and to one of the other 49 states.  The time of anticipation was filled with all sorts of emotions.  Initially it was excitement over all the possibilities, next came the sadness of leaving our old life behind, soon followed by resentment over the fact that I would have to leave the nanny job that I LOVED.  All of this was overshadowed by the optimism and hope that we had in knowing that this really was God’s plan and the next step into the future.

January 2010 came with the unexpected news that I was pregnant with our first child.  All of the sudden the move became more serious.  We would need friends and family like we never had before and yet we would be starting over in a new place.  I began to pray every day for a community, believing strongly that the Lord would hear my prayers and answer them.

One day, in the beginning of June 2010, I got the call from Josh saying that we would be moving to Omaha, NE.  I couldn’t remember on the map exactly where Omaha was located, but I did picture lots of cows, cornfields, and worse- SNOW!  It was quite a shock since we were planning on staying on the east coast; however I was pleasantly surprised to find that Omaha is a moderate sized city with fewer cows and more Targets than expected.

Before we showed up to our new home God already began working on our community.  A friend from Atlanta contacted a business owner here who hooked us up with another young couple who had a baby two and a half months younger than our daughter.  I’ll never forget that feeling of excitement over meeting this family and watching the answer to my prayers unfold into a wonderful friendship.

Less than a week after moving into our home in Papillion a friend from North Carolina who attended high school in Omaha connected me with a former classmate of his.  Kari introduced me to Christ Community Church and later to MOPS.  Both of these places are a huge source of my community as a mother and ours as a family.

I am so thankful for the way God met our need for friendship and community in a city where we could have been alone.  I think He loves to show up in our lives in big ways. 

 
What is your favorite type of chocolate?

·         Any and all! Add in peanut butter or coffee & it's even better!! ;-) ~Elizabeth Perkinson

·         Thin dark chocolate ~ Kathleen Russell

·         I like all chocolate! My favorite chocolate candy is Reese's peanut butter cups! ~ Kristin Polking

·         Chocolate- York peppermint ~ Jennifer Riser

·         Any GOOD milk chocolate ~ Lynette Nabity
 
·         Anything milk chocolate...I especially love the candy coated milk chocolate Cadbury eggs and the Reese's PB cup eggs, hearts, etc. that come out at every holiday. ~ Kelsy Kinning
  • I love milk duds. ~ Kate Geiger
 
 

Name something you are thankful for or love about your husband and/or kids...

·         So many! :-) I’m thankful for sweet notes or emails from my husband reminding me how appreciated I am-even for the things that typically go unnoticed....

My 7 year old recently asked if I was the tooth fairy. I told him that I didn't think so. He said, "Well if you were I would give you a thousand thank yous!!" that was thanks enough! :-) ~ Elizabeth Perkinson

·         I love that my husband is happy to see me after work. ~Kathleen Russel

·         I also love that my husband leaves little notes for me and the kids when he goes away on work trips. ~Kristin Polking

·         I love my husband’s sense of humor. ~ Jennifer Riser

·         Love that my husband is fun, spontaneous, eager to learn new things. ~ Lynette Nabity

·         I am thankful that my husband works hard to provide for our family and supports my decision to give up my career for now to stay home with our babies. ~ Kelsy Kinning

What is the funniest word your child mispronounces?

·         Natalie, my 5 year old, used to say "whobody" instead of somebody. ~ Elizabeth Perkinson

·         Bridget mispronounces 'handband' for 'headband.” ~ Kathleen Russell

·         Jenna, my 5 year old, when she doesn't want her sister or brother to copy her she says, "Stopy Copy Me!" ~ Kristin Polking

·         Funniest word- mittles instead of nipples. "Mommy! Cameron's crying ...he needs to eat from your mittles!" ~ Jennifer Riser

·         Kane (19 months) doesn't say much yet so it's almost always a guess and Kaelyn (2 weeks) won't be talking for quite awhile. J ~ Kelsy Kinning

·         Funniest word- when my youngest child called the handicapped signs, candyhapped signs. ~ Lynette Nabity


What do you do to make valentines day fun/special for your family? Crafts, food, fun?

·         Not my best holiday! Last year the kids got certificates for dates w/ mom or dad. (The boys just had theirs "redeemed" this month with their dad!!!) My oldest said, "it's ok if you want to give us a date again for Valentine’s Day, but can we not wait so long to do it!!" Yes, Sam! ~ Elizabeth Perkinson

·         Valentine’s Day is low key at our house, but we do exchange cards and have a special family dinner. ~ Kathleen Russell

·         We give the kids a small gift with candy and we write 3 things we love about each of them. ~ Kristin Polking

·         For Valentine’s Day dinner, I would make everything red and heart-shaped.  Meatloaf made in a heart-shaped pan with spaghetti sauce on top, red heart shaped jello, heart shaped muffins, strawberry heart shaped cake! ~ Lynette Nabity

·         My oldest is only 19 months so we haven't started any Valentine’s Day traditions, but I am making Valentine’s Day cards with the kids pictures and sending them out. Maybe we will bake Valentine’s Day cookies this year! ~ Kelsy Kinning
·         We usually do a fun craft for the kids valentines. Last year we made heart crayons. ~ Kate Geiger
 
 
 

Let’s Eat…
 
 
 
Using canned cinnamon rolls. Yum!
 
 
 
Breakfast idea from Martha Stewart
 
Cute lunch idea
 
 

Fun Craft idea
 
Cute decorating idea
 
Valentine card idea for those special grandparents.  :)
 
All ideas were found on pinterest! :)



Sunday, January 6, 2013

There – and Back Again
 
A New Year’s Resolution Revolt By Beth K. Vogt
 
 
Did you make any New Year’s resolutions?
I didn’t. I abandoned the annual tradition of writing down personal goals several years ago. New Year’s resolutions were more frustrating than fulfilling. What were my chances of success when I lost my list of dos and don’ts by the end of January?
Then I heard about focusing on a word for the year. One word. Surely I could keep track of a single word for 365 days.
A life-changing New Year’s tradition began four years ago. As I prayed and read the Bible each fall, God revealed new words for each year:
  • Gratitude
  • Contentment
  • Simplify
  • Forgiveness
Centering my attention – my prayers, my Bible reading – on one word for 12 months has produced tangible personal change.
  • The year I emphasized “gratitude,” my glass-half-empty view of life overflowed when I kept daily lists of what I was thankful for.
  • The word “contentment” translated into “Be happy with what you have” – and decreased my impulse buying.
  • “Simplify” coincided with a year-long illness forcing me to let go of supposedly must-do priorities.
  • This past year, I focused on forgiveness. This 11-letter word challenged me to more fully understand how to forgive those who’ve wounded me.
Unlike me, maybe you could find your list of New Year’s resolutions in seconds – and you’re off to a good start at keeping them. Consider looking over your list and asking: Can I distill all my goals down to one word?
Maybe you’re fretting about not having a list – or the fact that you’ve already lost you’re oh-so-carefully written out 2013 aspirations. Sometimes a mom’s best intentions – even the ones carefully written down – get lost in the busy-ness of caring for family, juggling schedules, looking for that ever-fleeting moment of quiet.
Take a deep breath and let the resolution requirement go. Pick a word. One word.
You've got plenty of time. Take a moment to think about one focus that you would like to stay on this year. Maybe your word hides within a Bible passage. You’re also welcome to adopt one of my previous words.
No pressure. After 26 years of active duty as a mom, I understand that motherhood comes with enough pressures. The demands of motherhood can weigh you down. And sometimes your desires for improvements – no matter how beneficial – can weigh you down too. Looking back, I realize oftentimes the heavy burdens I carried weren't ones Jesus asked me to pick up. Nope. They were ones that I lugged around because of my unrealistic standards for myself as a wife, a mom, a woman.
It’s a New Year. Pick a word. You’ll be amazed how a single word can change you in the next 12 months.

Beth K. Vogt and her husband experienced a double-dose of parenthood – three children in their 20s and a surprise fourth in their 40s. The author of “Baby Changes Everything: Embracing and Preparing for Motherhood after 35,” Beth edits Connections and is a regular contributor to MOMSense Magazine.